as far as i am concerned, online everyone is genderless unless they state otherwise. online, i am neither, or i am both. i will neither confirm nor deny being male or female, the same as i will never confirm my age, orientation, or the city in which i live. everything online is fluid.
furthur more, i want no more discussions regarding my or anyone elses gender on these boards. i default to using male pronouns just as a matter of habit. like ships, cars and things are referred to as female.